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91RSVert

Alright, I'll admit I am the WORLDS WORST at picking up woman. Got that outta the way! I have never "picked up" a female on my own, always blown it. Its either been someone set us up, or the female asked me out.

So, new girl at the car parts store. Total cutie, pocket size(what I like), nice eyes, nice body features, seems cool. I'm fairly sure shes 18+ yo. Even oblivous me thinks she likes me. But I also question if shes dating the store manager?? Hes kinda a past "friend" of mine(we knew each other thru another friend).

So, since I suck at woman. Whats a simple, no beating around the bush, polite way to ask her if shes taken, and if she wants to go out?

Then, if she does say yes. Its been about 7+ years since I been out on a date, where does one go, and do on a date Shocked

Seriously, Ive forgotten, or blown all the dates and never went on a 2nd one.

Go ahead and reply after your done laughing and wiped the beer or soda off the screen.

85 T/A WS6 · Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 9:39 pm Post subject:

Whats a simple, no beating around the bush, polite way to ask her if shes taken, and if she wants to go out?

If she is taken, that does not matter, get her interest and you can take her away. Friends first then go from there.

Never ask personal questions up front, facts will present themselves, play it cool and dont be over anxious.

Smile

Demon · Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 11:40 pm Post subject:

smash her over the head with a brick, drag her back to your domicile...

it's old school, but usually works if.

Amnesia is your best friend.

Honestly?
Just ask her if she'd be interesting in getting dinner some time, she'll either decline politely if she's taken, or if she's really a cunt, she'll half snort/half laugh and walk off.

Most women who are taken will admit it, but on the flip side, there are women who are taken who are looking for more as well. First date is a good way to find out more, with casual conversation... you can learn a lot by someones body language, if you make them uncomfortable, you'll notice. If they're becoming more honest, you'll also notice.

Use a bar setting if need be, some women prefer the side to side conversation vs. the face to face. The more you have to strain to look at them, the better they receive how your interest level is, and it boosts their ego as well.

Nothing better than making them more comfortable and feel better about themselves.

91RSVert · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 2:44 am Post subject:

Bar setting, well.... Not sure shes 21(hope she is), and I dont drink. Plus I cant here in them.

But your saying somewhere you can go and just sit down n talk?

Dewey316 · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 6:42 am Post subject:

pretty much... think about what I might do. Then do the exact opposite.

91RSVert · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 6:43 am Post subject:

Likely Abandon this idea! Appears she is not ever 18

Thanks for the ideas though.

She does have an older sister Laughing so hard it hurts

Xophertony

91RSVert · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 9:25 am Post subject:

Older then her.

Demon · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 1:07 pm Post subject:

blue89 · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 1:44 pm Post subject:

aaron_sK · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:30 pm Post subject:

91RSVert · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 6:38 pm Post subject:

which part. Age or sister?

flea · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 7:43 pm Post subject:

well in Washington 16 is the lucky number. . . Cool

I'm just sayin.

HONDASLAYER · Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 8:59 pm Post subject:

91RSVert · Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 2:36 am Post subject:

supposibly 16 is here to. But I'm not testing it.

18+ for this ride

flea · Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 3:31 am Post subject:

I don't blame ya. besides what would you talk about, Hannah Montana? the prom? Maybe who she'd invite to Sadie Hawkins. lol
nope 16 is waaaaay too young.

Alphius · Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 6:42 am Post subject:

chevymad · Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 4:37 pm Post subject:

16 is age of consent in washington. As long as you don't take pictures or anything. That's how that spokane fireman got off a few years ago. It did cost the guy his job though.

91RSVert · Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 5:13 pm Post subject:

Makes no sense really.

I can have sex with a 16yo, get her preggers. But I am not to look at her naked, or take pics of her naked cause thats illegal Confused

And as for the law on the pics. Its the most poorly written pos I have ever seen. But I wont get into it cause this isnt the site for it.